Me and my boobs have a sometimes tricky relationship: when I was growing up I felt odd about them, then I thought they were too big, too droopy, too this and too that. Over the years I’ve grown to accept them, and at times really like them, but now I’m on a mission to love them. I think they deserve to be loved, properly loved! They’re always with me after all, right there, not hiding away (no matter how much I tried to hide them when I was younger…)
So I started doing a little research on the internet. Started by googling ‘Love your boobs’, plain and simple. Got a lot of results. About 68.800 results. Looking past the ‘these guys love your boobs’ pages, the pages mainly fell into two other categories. Pages about how to use your breasts in playful flirting with your boyfriend, how to make them look perky, how to use them as a purse when going out, and how to get pleasure out of them while in the bedroom with your partner, like this one (and number 1 is a very good point). The other category is pages about breast cancer awareness.
While both kinds of pages have their merits (one more frilly than the other, although both useful at times), neither was what I wanted. Why should I have to choose between involving a guy in my relationship with ‘the ladies’, and having the not-very-happy through of breast cancer in the background of everything I read? Why can’t I just find something that talks about my own private relationship with my breasts without another person or the possibility of illness?
I know a lot of great products, services, blogs etc have a birth story of ‘I was looking for something and couldn’t find it so I made it myself’, and wouldn’t it be great if I could find a way to start a blog about boobs without cancer or guys! But the whole point in my looking for this on the internet was that I wanted to know about it myself, because I don’t at the moment!
The search continues…